Evelyn Lozada Vs. Jackie Christie

Okay so I am so late but I want to discuss this “issue” because it’s quite stupid and sad then messy. Evelyn Lozada returned to the Basketball Wives after leaving the series to star in her own series on OWN. The show is on hiatus right now and no telling if it would return. So many people including myself, was not happy about her return. It’s because I really like the new Evelyn and I hate to see her belittle who she is to end up on a show like that.

The basketball wives’ series typically focuses on the messiness and drama of rich women who are mostly black. It shines a negative light that elaborates on the saying, “You can take the girl out of the hood but you cannot take the hood out of the girl.” It’s actually sad if you think about it. When I saw that she would return I was heartbroken. Anger much like many things is an addiction. When you go into rehab, you’re supposed to learn coping mechanisms. You’re supposed to learn how to deal with stressors without resorting to inappropriate behaviors.

Well, because of the negative light shined on women of color with money, I felt that this show is poisonous to her recovery. Being a fellow New Yorker and growing up in the hood most of my life, I understand how defensive you’d have to be just to be left alone. I understand her and Tami quite well. I hoped that Ev would have left that show and left the negativity the show represents.

Then we have Jackie Christie. She is just messy. She says and does things knowing that it would piss off anyone and then play dumb. All of the drama were not quite her fault, this time but her reactions makes you almost not want to feel for her. Jackie is always putting 20 on 10 and you come to expect that about her. If she don’t put that alcohol down and get her life. SMH.

Now this issue started due to Evelyn donating money to Jackie Christie’s OTHER daughter’s son’s Go Fund Me account. Jackie made a big deal out of it. Of course, since Tami was angry with Ev at the time she tried to help keep it going but Jackie didn’t completely take the bait. Then Ev and Tami became “friends” again and then Jackie didn’t like it. They called it a ponderosa. I thought they were talking about the restaurant. It’s a steak house here in West Virginia. Urban dictionary says it’s a house or home of folks so…as suspected the terminology is misused.

So this goes on and on for a few episodes. blah. Then Jackie goes off on another cast mate. YAWN! Evelyn being who she is, felt the need to protect this woman. I cannot. I am sure that Ev could have been on the show without having to pick a fight with someone who really didn’t do anything to her. It wasn’t until Evelyn got a taste of her own medicine, (I had to chuckle. sorry!) that made Evelyn strike. After a long drawn out bullshit drama Jackie threw Evelyn’s own words towards her “You’re a non-Mother Fucking factor, bitch!” So now Ev has reached her boiling point and went to pounce. Ev says something about Jackie needing to take care of her grandchildren. Tami told Jackie who  didn’t realize Jackie didn’t hear what was said (maybe). Jackie responded by calling Ev’s daughter a build a whore. Wow!

People are mad talking about Ev started it. NO! Ev told her to take care of her grandchildren. She didn’t call any of them names. She didn’t do any of that. So I would say that once again, Jackie is putting 20 on 10 and that’s all.

This show is just sad this season. I keep hoping that it would get better but I find myself paying attention to ANYTHING other than the show. I am not sure if I am out growing the reality tv world or if it’s so obvious that it’s scripted. Why are we rehashing bullshit stories? Evelyn started out angry with Tami about the truth of her sleeping with a married man? They had one pow wow and it was squashed and they are homies again? In the words of Donald Trump, this is fake news. Lol. The Go Fund Me account had been closed for about a year maybe or close to it. Why are we discussing this now? It’s so obviously fake. They keep Jackie sauced up in order to either give her an excuse to act like a fool or that’s the only way she acts a fool.

I wonder if this is the way to break out again to do a show that would be just Jackie and the other folks and then another show with Ev, Shaunie, Tami, and maybe Jennifer? I am not sure. I am so bored this season. I was more interested in looking at my ceiling fan than this season. Either I have reached the point or age where I am tired of black women being the butt of jokes and playing into the negative stereotype or this season is just really bad. Are you telling me that you’ve married or dated well and you still act like that? You have money now but no class? You hadn’t learned emotional self control? I get that it’s called reality tv, but come on man. I hope Evelyn has her own show again and do what she’s doing. All of that fighting and anger and stress is not good for someone trying to have a baby.

BTW…Why are we not angry with Matt Barnes? He donated as well like 3K. In case none of you understand this corny beef, here’s a photo of the Sexy Matt and the precious baby that’s RICH Jackie Christie’s grandson.

Matt Barnes and the Grandson. Listen, my adopted mother and I did not have the best relationship BUT if my child was in this condition; no matter how she would have been feeling about me she would have been there for him. What’s wrong with Jackie?Matt-Barnes-donates-to-gofundme-Jackie-Christie-burned-grandson


Again Lena. How about you think before you speak? Geez!

Do you remember this woman? She put her foot in her mouth the last time about Odell Beckham Jr. She went on this whole rant about how he didn’t even notice her and looked at his phone the whole time. Now this is the same woman who constantly calls attention to issues of being objectified by men. So had Mr. Beckham Jr. stared her down and asked her out, she would have gone on another tirade. Well, she went looking like the way she looked in the featured photo. Not all men are into women who looked like they could be in their locker rooms. She issued an apology but it didn’t stop the internet from going in and going hard on this confused woman.

Now she has her foot in her mouth again. Lena did a podcast where she talked about abortion. She was asked about her troubles with abortion and she had admitted that she never had one. Somewhere in the conversation she made the quote; “I wish I had an abortion.” Now when I first read the caption, I took it completely different than I did when I read the articles. At first I thought that she had a child and wished she had aborted it. Not being a listener of her diatribe, I didn’t know the content in which the statement was made.

I am all for the rights of women. I feel this woman takes things to such an extreme and I am disgusted by the way she sexualized Mr. Beckham. The brother is sexy but still. You tell men not to look. You tell men not to comment. You tell men not to say much of anything. So if you don’t want to attract the opposite sex, judging by the way you looked at that event; then why get angry when they give you what you want? See, this is why men go ape shit crazy. Most women are so confusing. I get annoyed listening to the conversations. I feel like I want to go to the women often and say “MAKE UP YOUR DAMN MIND BITCH!” Okay, that was harsh but still.

Women’s issues need to be discussed and understood. Once we get to that point, then we could get to actions. Women are often divided on whether or not abortions should be legal. The thing is, abortions are going to happen legal or not. Where there’s a will, there’s a way. Lena touched on a very sensitive subject. This is a subject that literally creates waves. Women alone sway back and forth on the subject. There are women who’s had an abortion and are very pleased with their decision. It may have been difficult for some and not as difficult for others. There are others who’s had the abortion and regretted it and still do.

Lena should have THOUGHT BEFORE SPEAKING. That seems to be the issue with her. She doesn’t think before speaking and causes these storms that often outrages folks. This is an issue that should have been approached with caution. She should have been sensitive to the folks who actually listen to her diatribe. Now, after reading, I knew that she didn’t mean it the way that I took it at first. It was, however, quite insensitive. In addition to those who doesn’t believe that abortion is an answer, she should have been mindful of those who live with the regret of the decision to abort. In other words, she pissed off both sides of the argument.

Personally, I am not against feminism. I think it’s great to empower women to reach greater heights and create greener pastures. I hate the discrimination of feminists and I hate the hypocrisy of feminist. This is not the place for me to discuss heavy issues. I will discuss this further on my other blog site.

Lena had to apologize for being an ass. Then decided to throw money to fund abortions. Girl bye. How about you go back to acting, producing, and directing? Leave the deep thinkers to those who could articulate correctly. Who could be sensitive to the needs of the public. Granted you would not make everyone happy. Someone would get angry. Still, you should try to be political correct and tactful in your delivery. Make your point. Explain it then. Otherwise, you’re going to be always throwing money at the problem. Next time, there would be a person who would personally benefit from your “sizable donations.”

Y’all know how sue happy people could get. Just saying!


Alright, let me know what you think? Did you listen to the podcast? Do you follow her often? Are you a fan? Do you agree with what she said or disagree?

Thanks for stopping by.

Are Chyna and Rob Back On?

According to Yahoo Celebrity, it looks like Rob sent out a sweet Instagram message and @BlacChyna in it. He apologized to her for acting the way that he did. He told her that he was going to get some help for his issues. Then he put a photo up of their baby and said how the baby was his whole world.

AWE! How Sweet!

It’s not reported whether or not they are back together but we shall see. Here’s my beef with all of this…WHY SOCIAL MEDIA?

Listen, we all have beef with our loves a time or two or a million. I am in a committed relationship and we have problems from time to time. I don’t take it to social media. This is why I questioned in my last blog how real is this shit?

Are we going to have to deal with an explosion on social media every time there’s a problem? What about dealing with this stuff face to face? Whatever happened to calling someone on the phone? Why social media? I guess it’s all to keep them relevant. Chyna and Rob are cute enough that they don’t have to resort to suck fuckery. They should be able to have their relationship and keep it out of the media.

Is this the culture of reality television stars? All problems goes on social media. Whether they are together or not, they need to find a better solution to their problem. If Chyna feels that Rob is verbally abusive, then maybe she needs to keep him out of her life-like that. They could be friends, they could co-parent, but nothing more. The baby doesn’t need a hostile home environment.

Whether their beef was real or if it was fake it was entertaining, child. I just hope for the sake of the baby, they could keep it cool. Remember Rob and Chyna; your baby will get older. She will see all of this. Before getting married, the verbal abuse needs to stop. It will only get worse.

If they are going to work it out, then I wish them the best. If they are going to stay broken up, if they were really broken up, I hope they co-parent and get along for the baby’s sake. Dream Kardashian needs a dream home and family. Don’t turn it into a nightmare.



Good luck.

Rob Kardashian and Blac Chyna, Did they really break up?

Alright, I’m late but I am going to speak on this anyway. It was announced this weekend that Blac and Rob broke up…again and this time Chyna went all out. Home girl took the baby, her son, both rooms, and Rob’s food out of the house. She left him a pack of water in the fridge. He took to Instagram and made the world feel either sorry for him that Chyna would do that to him or pissed that he’s whiney.

Chyna then took to her NEW Instagram and wrote how she has being verbally abused by him and stressed out through out her whole pregnancy. She said that she had the baby because he asked her too. She focused in on his weight and how he was just lazy and doesn’t want to do anything.

At first I felt bad for Rob. He has no luck in relationships and now he has a baby. He referred to her as his girl. Then when I saw her post, before she deleted it, it made me angry. Then I had to stop and think about it. The Kardashian family is well-known for creating drama before they are about to showcase something. It dawned on me, they have a show that’s coming out about their daughter  Dream. Then all of this stuff like the “hacking” of her account and releasing conversations were just all suspect.

First of all, who has those types of conversations on the Net? The conversation with her attorney, what law offices practice like that? How is it that they are not conversing on the phone instead of the world-wide web? Then the conversation with her friend and all of those details about Rob. Once again, phone conversations should be had about the details that are obtained during those messages. I just had a hard time believing that all of this is real.

By this time next week, they would have “made-up” and looked like one big happy family. Rob said that Chyna left without him knowing. How? The place was cleaned out. Check the carpet, it was vacuumed. Do you see the streak marks in the carpet? It’s been vacuumed. What woman leaving a man without his knowledge actually takes the time to clean? Who could move out with all of the furniture if you’re leaving without the person knowing? So this is either a set up to remain relevant or he knew she was leaving and stayed away long enough for her to go. Come on Rob, we’re not stupid.4221396001_5252628330001_5252618949001-vs

There’s Rob looking all sad. They play it up pretty well. I really had hopes for this couple. I really wanted them to make it. I love them together. They are so cute. Rob always seems to get a raw deal. If he’s calling Chyna all kinds of bitches and whores then he needs to change that. Chyna, or no other woman for that matter, wants a man to be that shitty. No woman wants a cry baby for a man who has no goals and aspirations for life. She does. He needs to catch up.

Now if this is just a ploy to boost ratings for their show, then shame on them. They don’t have to do what the rest of the family does to boost ratings. They have more than enough notoriety to do something this stupid. If this is real, then they need to work it out to at least get along for the baby’s sake. There is an innocent life that’s alive and well. They need to put their petty B/S to the side and focus on their baby. They could co-parent without being a couple.

Rob, you need to get your shit together boo. You have a well-known name. You probably have some ideas. No woman wants a man who is lazy. You have mental health problems, well take your meds, go to therapy/counseling and handle it. Your daughter needs you. If you love that woman so much, then don’t call her bitches and hoes. That’s not love. That’s verbal abuse.


Thanks y’all.

Do you think this is real? Do you think this is just a show? How long do you think it would take before they’re back together again? Do you think Rob would ever get his shit together? Holla at your girl in the comments below.

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Tariq Nasheed and Tommy Sotomayor Beef.

Chile, as of 5:35 PM your girl was minding her own business browsing on her FaceBook’s timeline when I came across Tariq Nasheed’s post on it. He has a video of himself running up on Tommy Sotomayor while he was being interviewed on Vlad TV. Tariq was there to present him with the “Coin Train Award”. Then it got even messier hunty. 

During the video, Tariq asked him, “where’s all this killing at bro?” Wayment. Are you threatening people Tommy? Not a real brother like Tariq. Good luck with that.

While calling him by the puppet’s name, “Crispy” to his face, I was shocked and Tommy looked shocked with those two plastic WWE belts on his lap. Wtf? Why does this grown ass man have two plastic WWE belts on his lap? Then he was calling Tariq childish? Hmmm. 

Here is the thing guys. First of all I can’t stand Tommy and I love me some Tariq. I remember Tariq when he first started on The Flavor of Love Girls Charm School. I watched some of Tommy’s YouTube videos and they disgust me. Tommy is all about the hatred and anger towards black women, whereas, Tariq is all about educating and uplifting black people. 

Much like anyone, I don’t agree with everything someone says but with Tommy, I can’t follow anything he says. He starts this beef with folks on YouTube and sends his trolls to harass folks. Tommy is the saddest human being I have ever seen. He started beef with at least two female YouTubers such as my favorite Loveli Ti and  Soncerae Smith for a long time. 

Soncerae Smith responded a few times. I don’t think Loveli Ti did or maybe not many videos. Those sistas were harassed by his followers. He and Tariq got to going back and forth but I stopped.following Tommy’s videos. Soncerae Smith and her turmoil by a self hating black, hurts my heart and his followers makes me sad. 

Coon Train: Tariq has a few videos called coon train is coming. So funny. It features him and a few other people. 

Crispy: The Crispy puppet is about Tommy. Tariq has a whole series on it. Many find it funny. Others feel like the two brothers should shake hands and let go of the drama. 
I don’t know what really started this drama but I hope Tommy learned his lesson. Don’t run your mouth on a real brother like Tariq. I’ve watched a bit of Tariq’s videos and I could so see him running up on a fool. 

As Tariq said; go watch Hidden Colors. I want to watch all four I believe there are. So support your brother and buy. 

Tommy Sotomayor I can’t feel sorry for him. You can’t threaten people and think folks are going to take it well. I don’t care if you date white or non-black women, you don’t have to hate us. Whatever you need to do to fix your problem then do it. Not all black women are bad and we’re not all beasties. (Your title). 

Mixed reactions: There were mixed reactions online. While many of us Love Tariq many felt bad about it being done in front of two laughing white men. Vlad was there interviewing Tommy when Tariq ran up on him. They laughed most of the time. I could see where people felt that they found the humor in two black men going at it. 

I say that maybe they were laughing at the name calling and the shock to the system. Then again there’s a chance that they knew Tariq was coming. The whole time Tommy accused them of setting this up. I wondered how that interview went? 

Alright guys tell me what you think. Did Tommy deserve what he got? Did Tariq take it too far? Do you think it was just for views and attention? Holla at your girl. Leave me a comment below. 

Beyoncé doesn’t like Kim?

3. Did you forget the booty pic every time Beyoncé would come out with something? Once the world started to talk about Beyoncé, here comes another ass pic.



Of course you have all seen photos of them together. Sources says that Beyoncé says very little to Kim and when she does, it’s kind of icy. Ouch, Beyoncé girl, are you icy or are we being careful. If I were Beyoncé, Kim couldn’t be my friend either. I wouldn’t want my man anywhere near them. No one really knows what the beef is really about. For once, Kim is not putting anything on blast. You know she posts everything on social media. Well I have my thoughts that I have yet to hear anyone really touch on. So you know me. I’m messy as hell and had to bring it out boo!

  1. Kim K and her family are always battling it out with Beyoncé. Do you remember the wedding photo that the Knowles took after Solange’s Wedding? They were dressed in white and it was tastefully done. What do the Kardashian’s do after that? Yep. You guessed it, take the same damn photo. Poses and all.
  2. Kim K and her family has a long history of being horrible friends. When was the last time you’ve ever seen Kim or any of the sisters with real close friends? Maybe it’s because they are boyfriend stealers.
  3. Did you forget the booty pics every time Beyoncé would come out with something? Once the world started to talk about Beyoncé, here comes another ass pic.
  4. Too much camera time. Okay before the robbery, Kim was constantly on social media posting about something to do with nothing. People ate it up. Every thing she did, she did it on camera. Beyoncé is a very private person and in does not put her whole life out there for the world to see.

Remember when I mentioned boyfriend stealer? Yas hunty. Think about it. What would it be like to finally beat Beyoncé by fucking the dog shit out of her man and getting a baby from him? Yea, I am sure “Becky” with the “good hair” would never be a Kardashian and to make sure, jigga, you better stay your ass right there with her. It would be a triumph for the Kardashians but an embarrassment for the Queen Bey. I actually would feel sorry for any of those women who would be dumb enough to go for Beyoncé’s man. Hmm. The Beehive would get to stinging and they would have to go into hiding for real.

You think I’m joking? Remember Becky with the good hair? Then the woman who went crazy and claimed she was this Becky. The Beehive stung this chick so hard that she had to come back and say she was joking, child. They got to stinging so bad that the chick with the same first name got drugged into this hard too. I had to grab my invisible curls.

The only sad thing that I could see about this is the children. Now, they’ve never met. Blue Ivy and North never had play dates or anything. They could be each other’s best friends but how do you be best friends with someone who can’t stand your momma? I know, some of y’all may say, “Well, Kash, what would the parent’s drama have anything to do with the children?” Typically nothing, but when it comes to children that young, they would have to do whatever their parents say. Now if they end up going to the same high school or college and become friends later in life, then so be it and I hope they are good to each other.

I believe that black women are growing tired of the Kardashians and their slutty mess. There’s no excuse to be a home wrecker and proud. They set terrible examples for the newer generations and their sheep who would follow them off a cliff without questioning why. I promise I will not go in so hard on them like I did my last post on them. Maybe there are some good in them. I haven’t seen much evidence of that. I have once pitied Kim and how people trashed her, but now I get it.

Her ordeal in Paris is terrible. It shook her up so much that she went into hiding. Then after that Kanye went crazy and went on the rants during what was supposed to be his concerts. So with what’s left of the humanity in me, I would give her a slight break. You know what…we haven’t seen the last of the Kardashians like most of us hoped. Stay tuned. This should be my last bash on the Kardashians UNLESS, they do something crazy again. Then I gots to get it in. So for now, they get a break.

Let me know what you think? Why do you think the Queen Bey is not having anything to do with Kim? Do you think my theories are on or slight off or way off? Comment and let me know.

The K sisters suing Blac Chyna?

Did you read that mess all over the place? If Rob and Chyna get married, Chyna gets the name Kardashian. They are suing so that she doesn’t get to use their name for business purposes. WTF? It’s been said that they feel that Chyna would ruin their brand and their good name. So basically what I am reading is that the Kardashians don’t mind playing the role of a black woman but don’t want a real black woman representing them. I had to laugh when I read the VH1 post about this. I couldn’t help but to just giggle.

Well, it’s obvious that Chyna loves her some Rob. They have a beautiful baby girl and of course a baby could help put things in better perspective. I wish them well. Maybe Chyna is the first person to show Rob any real love. She was there when his own family turned their backs on him. I guess since he would never grace the GQ magazines then he’s nothing. I hope this is just all drama for television and not really what they are doing to their own kid/brother.

Rob and Chyna obviously adore one another. The sisters need to be happy that someone loves their brother. Oh…wait…did I forget something? That’s right. Kylie’s boyfriend used to be Chyna’s fiancé. They have baby King and everything. He went to perform for her birthday and they have been creeping ever since. Their relationship came public on her 17th year. Now isn’t that a thank you. Chyna and Kim were good friends. So of course if I were Chyna, my feelings would be butt hurt. Kim didn’t tell her sister no and what she did was wrong.

Wait a minute…hold up, that would have to mean that they have a conscious. You can’t steal the amount of men that they have stolen or breakup the families that they do and have a conscious. Black women beware of the hoes of the Kardashians. They have no souls to do what they do. It’s disgusting. They talk about ruining of their name? They’ve already besmirched the good name of Kardashian. Ever wonder why Kris Jenner, when she and Mr. Kardashian divorced that she went to clean houses of the same rich circle she ran with.

Now I have to give that woman her props. She strategize and got herself Bruce who is now Caitlyn. I can’t even. Then she was back in the circle. Then she turned around and got her daughter’s sex tape released and blew up. The Kardashian’s name was already on the brink of destruction. So we got a divorce. A sex tape. Oh and several broken homes and fake faces and asses to boot.

When I hear the name Kardashian, I don’t think good thoughts. I don’t think pillars of the community and good folks. I think whores and home wreckers. How does one steal a pregnant woman’s man and flaunt him all over social media? Start the shit and don’t care? Now I am not saying those men don’t hold any blame to their stupidity. They are just as dumb and deserve that Kardashian curse that would soon follow.

I think Chyna would be an authentic black woman in that family. Well she’s the only one that’s an adult. I think she would grow their brand and would expand their empire. Chyna would bring more black women in and have us a bit more interested. Kim and her sisters are just delusional. Then again, it could all be for the sake of fame. Maybe Chyna is already accepted. Maybe she’s already been welcomed into the Klan. If I were Chyna, I wouldn’t want a damn thing from them. Chyna is a smart woman. She went from being a stripper to doing her thing. So if the Kardashians are mad about that, they could go somewhere.

The Kardashians were born into a well to do life, at least until after the divorce. Who knows, maybe their dad kept them until he passed away. May he rest in peace. He was the only good thing attached to that name. publically, that family’s name has been ruined and turned into a joke. Granted they make their money but everything about them is fake. They have no originality. They stole everything. Their looks are fake. Their bodies are fake. Their whole existence in the industry is just fake.

I respect Chyna because she wasn’t born into a well to do family. She was born and raised in poverty. She did what she felt she had to do. Now she’s a household name. I am so proud of you Chyna boo, boo do your thing. If the Kardashian sisters are going to be like that, fuck them Chy. Don’t let them bully you with court or anything else. You don’t need the Kardashian name. By the way, Dream is a dream of Kim and all of her sisters because she was BORN black. So her features that may come will be hers. No need to go to the doctors and pick a face. Good job.

The Kardashians has stolen everything about the black woman and made plenty of money off of it. They couldn’t come to Hollywood looking like they did. Not all of them were ugly but Kim was not cute. They stole our features, our asses, our hairstyles and everything. They have made billions looking like us women. They even go to whatever black man is taken by whatever black woman and steal them too. The Kardashian women do not like black women at all. I feel that if Chyna was a white woman, none of this would be an issue. The Kardashian sisters reminds me of the old slave masters issues. Do you remember when the slave master would send poorer white folks into black homes to make sure they didn’t have too much? That’s who they make me think of. Those sistas had too much and the sisters got jealous and would steal what they think the sistas shouldn’t have. Bitches!

I wish I was the judge on the bench chile. I would look at the bullshit presented to me. I would look at them. Look back at the bullshit. Let them bitches talk. Laugh and tell them to get the fuck out of my courtroom with that bullshit. I would be like, while I am dealing with this piece of shit suit there are real people in trouble. I would make them go to jail for 10 days for wasting my time.

Well that was my two cents. What do you have to say? Should they sue to keep Chyna from using their name in business? Do you think this is stupid and childish? Do you think that they have a point? Lets get this discussion popping.